Deep questions to ask your partner.

For when “how was your day” isn’t going to cut it. Take turns, and skip anything that doesn’t feel right tonight.

1. What detail of our future have we never really discussed?
2. What promise turned out to be harder to keep than you expected?
3. What takes more energy from you than I realize?
4. What did you figure out about us while we were apart?
5. What did a past relationship teach you that I benefit from now?
6. What was a difficult year in your life that I don’t know much about?
7. What did you think our life would be like when we first got together?
8. Who would you have called first with good news ten years ago, and would you call them now?